Your behaviour is as individualised as this
Politness and eccentricity, solid values and pleasure in breaking the rules – none of these aspects are mutually exclusive. On the contrary: By being well-mannered, we pay respect to others. At the same time, some of us benefit from breaching etiquette now and then. When two people meet who differ a great deal in this respect, it can at first be exciting. In the long run, however, you should find common ground, since conflicts can arise out of stimulating, yet opposing attitudes.
Conventionality. The way an individual deals with accepted social behaviour and norms. A conventional person recognises these and also expects others to do so. He or she sets great store by good manners and social standing.
Unconventionality. This indicates a striving for originality and individualism, defying the rules and norms of social behaviour. An unconventional person likes to be different, perhaps through their style of dress or in the interior décor of their house.
Desire for structure. The extent of your need to plan everything in advance and to see everything in its proper place. For example, this sort of person might be someone who likes to eat regularly and at fixed times.
Your desire for domesticity. This indicates a tendency to focus on family interests and associated duties – and not to be equated with domestic ‘skills’. A domestic person is happy to spend their free time in their own home.
Your need to be active and doing nothing at all
People differ greatly in how much activity and peace and quiet they need. The extent to which these characteristics are pronounced differs from person to person. It is important to make sure that both partners have similarly pronounced characteristics.
Your need to be adventurous. Your desire for everyday life to be lively and full of variety. For example, someone with a marked need to be adventurous might be a person who enjoys doing sports a lot.
Your need to be peaceful. The desire for peace and security. For example, this sort of person might be someone who likes to spend their free time resting and relaxing.
